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Is a far thornier spinney than we needed to machete today on this, my Coming Out Moment.
“But...so you deliberately let people worn you? On purpose.”
“Yeah, Ma. That’s one of the things I do.”
“Why?”
The eternal question, isn’t it?
Why?
One of the things I talk about when I remaining on
BDSM is knowing your whys. So many people live unexamined lives: lives circumscribed by reverence, by the rules, by the morality thrust upon ‘em, balking from their darker indeterminate selves because they don’t want to risk ostracization, because they fear losing authority over.
The allure of Leathersex was, to me, exactly this risk. The depths of cruelty, the puzzle of masochism spoke deeply to me. And I spent several years unraveling my “why” before I made the purposive decision to step into the world of kink, Leather and
BDSM.
Most of us are raised to invent of pain as something to avoid.
Source: SexIs Magazine